Fitness Lessons I Know at 34 (That I Wish I Knew at 24)
I’ve made a lot of mistakes over the years—
Chased the wrong fitness goals.
Listened to the wrong fitness advice.
Burned out. Restarted. Repeated.
Here’s what I’ve learned the hard way:
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- Strength and motivation are the foundation of fitness
Cardio won’t build the fitness you want—muscle will.
Strength training boosts fitness metabolism, prevents injury, and makes life easier.
If you’re not getting stronger in your fitness journey, you’re just spinning your wheels.
→ Build fitness now so you don’t have to “fix” things later.
- Strength and motivation are the foundation of fitness
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- You don’t need to train every day for fitness
More workouts ≠ better results.
3–4 quality fitness sessions a week > 6–7 average ones.
Muscle grows when you rest—not when you train for fitness.
→ Stop chasing intensity. Start chasing consistency and motivation in fitness.
- You don’t need to train every day for fitness
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- Chasing aesthetics alone is a mistake
Training just to “look good” leads to poor movement, injury, and frustration.
The best-looking bodies? They train for performance, not appearance.
→ Move well, and the aesthetics will follow.
- Chasing aesthetics alone is a mistake
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- Stop program hopping
Jumping from plan to plan keeps you stuck.
Progress = doing more over time (not doing more programs).
→ Stick with one solid plan for months, not weeks.
- Stop program hopping
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- Mobility isn’t optional
Skipping mobility in your 20s is a shortcut to stiffness in your 30s.
It only takes 5–10 minutes a day.
→ Move well now, or regret it later.
- Mobility isn’t optional
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- Nutrition doesn’t need to be complicated
Fad diets and extreme plans are a waste of energy.
→ Eat real food. Prioritise protein. Stay consistent.
The best diet is the one you don’t feel like quitting.
- Nutrition doesn’t need to be complicated


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- Sleep is the best performance enhancer
Poor sleep kills recovery, boosts cravings, and slows muscle growth.
No supplement can replace 7–9 hours of good sleep.
→ Want better results? Fix your sleep first.
- Sleep is the best performance enhancer
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- Fat loss comes from habits, not suffering
Starving yourself and pounding cardio isn’t sustainable.
→ Strength training + whole foods + daily movement = real fat loss.
If you can’t keep it up for a year, it’s the wrong approach.
- Fat loss comes from habits, not suffering
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- Discipline > Motivation
Motivation fades.
Discipline builds momentum.
→ Build systems and habits that make training automatic.
You don’t need to feel motivated—you just need to show up.
- Discipline > Motivation
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- The biggest lesson – Keep it simple.
Strength training.
Whole foods.
Good sleep.
→ Master the basics, stay consistent, and results will follow.
- The biggest lesson – Keep it simple.
Took me over a decade to figure this out.
Hopefully it saves you a few years.
Follow me for daily fitness motivation.
– Abhash Sharma
